

this post makes me wish lemmy.world did the same thing


this post makes me wish lemmy.world did the same thing


Every single time I see this type of conversation come up it’s always about the more privileged higher paying white collar work.
this is true and i know i because i’m one of those workers while my siblings aren’t and only my pay increases significantly each time while theirs remain stagnant.
on the other hand recruiters hate “job hoppers” and you’ll end up with more gate keepers to jobs the more often you do it; while my siblings barely get any questions when they have to switch jobs.


my work experience is almost entirely 2 & 3 year tenures and (anecdotally) companies are making vesting a bigger part of the compensation package and getting rid of pto to counteract people’s attempts at improving their livelihoods.
if you see a vesting heavy or “unlimited pto” compensation packages on offer; they don’t expect to keep you for very long.


moving every 2 years or so is clearly the best strategy for career advancement.
it’s a double edged sword in my experience from to talking to recruiters who seem to have an irrational hatred of “job hoppers” and they’re, anecdotally, a majority.
however it is still true that you’ll get higher pay as i did; but be sure to spend a LOT of time keeping your connections alive because most recruiters (still anecdotally) will red flag 2 & 3 year tenure-ships; effectively gate keeping you away from many jobs.
if it weren’t for being in a relatively lucrative and in demand field (software development); i would be screwed because of those recruiters.


watch everyone but leftists, that lemmy was created for, avoid this thread
that’s why it makes more sense to have them be naked to begin with ;)
There doesn’t even need to be penetration involved and it can still be a good time.
that’s true; but the pic implies a “gangbang” which is usually penetrative.
i forgot strapons existed and i think that would enable a greater variety of double/triple/whatever penetration videos than gay porn currently does.
based on the strapon usage i’ve seen: i suspect people who use strapons derive more psychological pleasure than physical pleasure and if that would have an impact on the quality of the porn.
yes please! lol
but i wonder how this would work with men and women; do they take turns with the man? if so how is it different than 1-on-1 porn?


canadians, maybe; but american’s can only vote for a “lesser evil” at best, so that’s never going to happen.


i had this cuban moreno friend who was overly proud of his spanish heritage and would make fun of my chicano spanish sometimes. each time he did it in public, i would shut him up by asking someone in the group which one of us was latino which one was american; my garden variety mexican looks always got picked as latino and his afrocubano ass got picked as american. it was especially delicious if the person i asked knew that he could speak spanish.
i thoroughly enjoyed using american racism to put him in his place and it’s probably the only time in my life where that racism worked to my advantage. lol


the same thing i did when even biden, et al. voted against gay marriage; gays in the military; supported gay ban in the federal gov’t and stayed silent on a slew of anti-immigrant & anti-abortion state laws.
yes obviously I have to choose bad over worse.
we’ll all be doing this for the rest of our lives thanks to this system and it still leads us to the same place that the worse option does, but at a slower pace.


That’s the best thing about the stuff that the CIA has done: they publicly admit to it in writing and people still refuse to believe it’s true


he’s a smart guy so he’s aware that no one will do this.
i used to like bernie but i’m learning that he likes to talk the talk, but doesn’t walk the walk (atleast not anymore). i regret donating to him, but part of me feels good that i did because it means that i can be just as clueless and mis/ill-informed as the people who support biden or trump.


The next group of MAGA idiots who show up to pull a Jan 6 2.0 will get turned away by authorities actually equipped to handle them.
i wonder if they’ll get smarter w 2.0 and go after unguarded but key pieces of infrastructure like some did in the 2022 elections with power stations.


Even other GOP members were pissed about the insurrection and were targeted by insurrectionists.
and then turned around and acted like it was nbd
all the downvotes this comment is getting is making me wonder if all or most of the genocides in the past were allowed to happen because it was politically easier to ignore them during their time for some other higher priority goal.
if that’s true, it speaks volumes that we no longer remember what that other goal is but continue to perpetuate genocides while simultaneously abhorring it and that it feels a lot like other bizarre social practices like war or prejudices were we also perpetuate them while also simultaneously abhor them.
i’ve been on the receiving end of his cunty-ness in person as a lowley tech support minion that he was forced to work with, as well as several other well known pioneers; i can tell through this thread that dessalines is an angel by comparison and i’ve never met them.